Apostila Do Casados Para Sempre -
Buy a blank notebook. Do not use a computer; handwriting slows down the ego. Each spouse writes three "Non-Negotiables for Forever." (e.g., "You cannot yell at me in public," "You must respect my sleep," "We will always sit down for dinner together.")
Many marriages fail because one spouse absorbs the other. You stop being "John and Lisa" and become just "The Johnsons," losing the unique traits that made you fall in love. apostila do casados para sempre
The words "divorce," "separation," and "I'm leaving" are forbidden during arguments. Using them as a weapon to win a fight is a breach of contract. Instead, the apostila offers an alternative escape valve: The Safe Word . When a fight becomes too hot, any spouse can say the safe word (e.g., "Strawberry"). Upon hearing it, both parties must stop talking, go to separate rooms, and return in one hour. Buy a blank notebook