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The Art of Noticing

Finn looked confused. “Sophie? She was just asking about guitar lessons. Her brother plays.” Sexuele Voorlichting Puberty Sexual Education For Boys And

“Can I see?” he asked.

They started walking again, slower now. Finn asked about her sketchbook. Lena showed him a drawing of a crow she’d been working on. He told her about a song he was trying to write but couldn’t find the right chord for. The Art of Noticing Finn looked confused

But then, at a party at a friend’s house, she saw Finn talking to Sophie, a girl from the parallel class. Sophie touched his arm. He laughed. And a terrible, ugly feeling bloomed in Lena’s chest: jealousy. It was hot and sour, like swallowing vinegar. Her brother plays

For the rest of class, Lena couldn't focus. Her stomach felt fizzy, like a shaken soda bottle. This was new. Last year, boys were just loud, smelly creatures who laughed at farts. Now, Finn’s presence made her hyper-aware of everything: her hair, her posture, the tiny chip in her front tooth.

Lena remembered Ms. Klaassen’s words: “Consent isn’t just for big things. It’s for every touch. A hand on a shoulder. A first kiss. It should be as clear as a ‘yes’ or a ‘no thanks, not yet’.”