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Shows like The Bear are not about a sandwich shop; they are about the residue of a deceased, abusive brother. The chaos of the kitchen is a metaphor for the chaos of the Berzatto household. When characters scream in the walk-in fridge, they are screaming at a ghost. Great family drama is never about the argument